January 25, 2013
Julie says: At church one Sunday a friend of mine asked if school was out yet for me. (I'm a teacher.) I said yes and she said, "Great! How would you like to nurse a kitten for me?” A friend of hers had given her an orphan male kitten to care for, since normally she does that kind of stuff, but she was just too busy to attend to the two-hour feedings. I said I would do it, knowing that my daughter Emily, home from college, would be in love and I wouldn’t have to do much. We would only have the kitten for about three weeks and then we would have to find it a home because I knew our cat, Cally, would not tolerate another cat around the house, although I thought she might accept a kitten for a while.

So the work began. We fed the kitten milk replacement formula from an eyedropper, and then afterwards we would clean him with a warm wet paper towel to imitate the licking of the mother cat. This also induces kittens to eliminate, since they can’t do this on their own yet. I was thinking (hoping) that Cally might adopt the motherless kitten, but when we showed the meowing babe to her, she stiffened, hissed at it and took herself outside. But all was not lost. Gradually we introduced kitty to Lucy, our dog. No one, not even a dog, can resist a kitten. Her interest was fanatic. Eventually we let her sniff him and she was in love. When we felt it was safe, we put the kitten on the floor. Lucy laid down next to the little thing and assumed the nursing position, getting in occasional gentle licks. That was it; Lucy finally attained motherhood. Kitty was her "puppy" and she began caring for him in every way that she could. Even claws and sharp little teeth didn't deter Lucy's desire to be a good mother. Under Lucy's care, Toby grew and thrived. He became very playful and grew to love sandals, his "sock buddy," and anything he could get his teeth and claws into, including my leg.

Still, he needed a new home. I tried to remain a stauch supporter of my husband's declared position of "no new cat." But he was the one who fell in love and caved. So Emily won again, just as she did in 1994 when she convinced us to keep Cally.

Toby is now a total member of the family. He has learned to be more careful with his claws. Cally still hisses and growls whenever he comes within two feet of her. Lucy no longer mothers this full-grown boy, but they are friendly. She routinely shares "her" chair with him. And when he sees Lucy crossing the yard, he crouches, races across the yard and leaps at her, occasionally using her back as a springboard.

All Photos Courtesy of and ©: Julie Falk
Julie's photo blog Framework of the Heart is not to be missed, especially her photos of snowflakes!!

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Can anyone explain why a cat in Cally's position would reject the new cat?
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Awww how gentle. Look at them.
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Quiet, no talking, baby is asleep!
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How sweet! Looks like Toby had everyone wrapped around his little paw!
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It took OUR Kali about 3 days to accept our new little kitten. At first she hissed and didn't want her around, but when she gave in, she would let her pretend to nurse and she would lick her! I guess maybe it is a territorial thing. They play and have a love-hate relationship now at ages 5 and 3.
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I can see why there was no way you were going to let Toby go to another home! He is precious and so is "his" story. Love it!
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Such a sweet story and Lucy is a good "foster" mom! Darcy: cats can be territorial and possessive of their owners' attention when someone new is brought into the fold. Depending on their personality, some will eventually take to the newbie, others never do. I may be getting a new kitten soon and I hope my other kitty will be happy about it!
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I can see how Toby won over everyone's hearts! What a handsome little boy!
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Wonderful story. @aprilmlane summed up the situation perfectly. Callie is suffering from a kind of sibling rivalry. When you are nursing little Toby, you gave him the attention he needed but probably gave Callie less--the suggestion is to feed Toby separately and double up on Callie's loving time until she can accept him as no threat. Idea for next time.
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=^.^=***** <2 This Beautiful story could not have a different end. Toby and'Too Nice and Sweet to not bring in your own home!!
I think the cat Cally will have lots of love and still going slowly' in agreement with the Baby,
Lucy and Adorable and Lovingly Beautiful!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Long happy life to everyone!!!!!!!!!
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All your pics are wonderful but this one, fantastic dog and kitten, I love. Also the initial one, looks like Toby has his chin in his paw, so precious.
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OMG! How could anyone resist this adorable face? Toby is precious and I'm glad he won everyone over to find a loving, furever home.
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I remember these two! <3
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"Go ahead, mom, tell my story again! I love to hear it!"
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What a heartwarming story, and what a gorgeous little guy Toby is! We've found that although some cats don't have the mother instinct and don't like other cats much, they all learn to coexist peacefully, given time and patience.
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What a wonderful mommy Lucy is! You and your family are not the first ones to fall in love with their "temporary" bottle kitten! God bless you all.
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Lovely story, but I never got the pictures that others have made their comments from, only the beginning one. I do not think that it is ny computer. Just white blocks are showing up.
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What a fabulous story ... and fabulous family. Toby isn't the only lucky one in your family!
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kibblegirl this problem happens to me now and again, to a possible solution, check you're secuerety settings.Hope I've helped you.
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Cats have their mysterious ways of winning you over, don't they?
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Teachers tell the best stories!
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It's a shame he's not cute ... ;) I'm glad Toby lets you live with him!
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Little darling!!
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So cute, great to hear she found a forever home.
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the most precious moments are those when a kitten or a pup are being hand reared. I'm so glad that Toby and Lucy get on like a house on fire ....!!!
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Unbelievably cute!
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See, we really all can get along! Toby & Lucy complement each other, colorwise & love. It's fantastic. I'm in love!



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